13 Sep Ageing priorities: marriage case for men(worldwide)
How to marry a man?? Women do ask this often, frankly, the answers to this are vague; what would make a man to tie the knot? What are the key aspects for men to quit the single-mingle lifestyle?
So are we coming down to the standard ‘ideal partner’ kind of statement?: A man needs a companion who would support him, help him, share joyful moments with him, motivate him, be by his side, and attract him sexually. The last one is particularly hits the front list for decision to marry.
Well, unfortunately this ‘mantra’ (to wed), picks up basic terms that give away nothing. Strong words but empty: fancy to tell but lousy to rely on. Who doesn’t want to have supportive people near? Or to share the moments with fun and kind creatures? The thing is, the main reasons to marry for men ( and for women as well) are beneath this ‘complimentary’ terms and often just pivoting on their current age.
I will try to keep it short and snappy…
From about 18 to 30 (roughly)
Pure affection…Marrying at young age might seem naive at first.
Passion, Sexual desire, Jealousy, Hormones are going up and down, Escape from parents.
The youngest age segment when it comes to marriage. At school/university, easily couple up with new people that share the same interests, simply they have the same classes, therefore, comfortably coexist: more or less same time table, mutual friends, no financial concerns (paying bills for the roof, kids’s needs), no need to share household responsibilities, raise kids, or deal with your partner’s relatives,… Men, perhaps, in best period to have love euphoria, in other words, love hormone hits the brain, and yeah, some ‘other’ body parts. Jealousy is one of the biggest ‘side effects’ from it and at the same time a key reason for some to marry in haste.
The marriage is the way to leave parents’ house. Stepping into a grown up life.
Many folks think that its better to marry young and grow with your partner together; made it official after college or before it, and be together till death…guess that ‘death’ usually happens in 5 years time: by statistics, 5 years is a standard number for people to fed up with each other – he is no longer sweet as he used to, or she is not as beautiful as she seemed back then. In short – priorities changed.
From about 30 to 45
More selective and sophisticated marriages.
Stability, Status, Tiredness, Family need (have an offspring)
Using the martial status to raise career position: Married men are honoured with respect and assumed to be more responsible, trustworthy compare to a single men. This dynamic is often seen in Russia, China, Middle East.
Men are simply tired of changing partners; Spending time at the bar after work with a new one-night-stand girl or rather to have a woman that would be waiting at home after work, taking care of cooking and cleaning. Choosing stability over unpredictable night outcome. At that age, men come closely to understanding what should be valued in couple-hood, and what will not be accepted solely for them (mental and physical attributes)…
Instinctive responsibility to pass businesses or other belongings to next generation, preferably by blood.
From about 45 to 55
Sophistication added to maturity: experienced and tactful – all matters told upfront.
New breath of excitement(beautiful young lady beside), Family need, Fix daily routine (cooking, cleaning, washing), Nursing (healthcare taker)
Starting something new, either changing work, hobby, or learn, try something that never had time before. I reckon to call it as a new breath of life, instead of – as some boring dwellers called it – a midlife crisis.
Usually, at that time men are financially stable: highly positioned in the business world, respected by their peers. Marrying a beautiful younger woman would seem like a bonus. Only if this bonus easy to deal with tho 🙂
Panic to leave this world without someone who could continue the legacy and inherit what was worked for. The need for a kid. Men are able to focus on the career fully at their 20s–40s and in their 50s–60s still be at reproductive age( life shows to even 90s), therefore, have a kid or kids and be financially settled.
55 to 100 and older
After 60s men might seem a bit more demanding…😄
…and straightforward
Comfort at home, Start a new life, Family need, Fix daily routine (cooking, cleaning, washing), Nursing (healthcare taker)
Best age to start gardening, live on the country side, find a new passion…
Comfort at home is way more crucial than ever before.
Time for men to take the best out of the retirement or just to enjoy high professional status.
The biggest concern is health. Statistically, married men live longer than unwed. So, getting a wife – have an own home nurse.
To have an offspring might be crucial and not so much.
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